The Paradox of Craving People but Avoiding Them

Loneliness is rising in a world that’s more connected, and more disconnected, than ever. As quick entertainment and digital convenience replace spontaneous hangouts and community life, many of us find ourselves craving connection yet avoiding it out of fear, overwhelm, or habit. This article explores the growing paradox of wanting people but pulling away, the societal shifts fueling isolation, and why rebuilding community may be the key to improving our mental well‑being. If you’ve been feeling stuck, lonely, or unsure how to reconnect, you’re not alone—and small steps toward others can make all the difference.